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Congratulations
sweetie! Of all the girls that the bride has met in her lifetime
to date, you stand out above the rest. She has had many sleepless
nights making this big decision. She knows that who she picks will
make some happy and others upset.
The title of bridesmaid comes with responsibility
and cost. If you don’t have the time or money to be a part
of a wedding party, there’s nothing wrong with turning the
bride down and just coming as a guest. Many friendships have suffered
because a friend was too scared to say, “Sorry, I love you
but I can’t.”
The
bill for being a BMs is between $200.00 to $500.00+. The totals
will all depend on formality of the wedding, cultural background,
size of wedding, your dress and your budget. The
bride and her Maid of Honour will look to you for help many times
during the planning stages and on the wedding day. So, what do
you have to do?
BRIDESMAID’S
DUTIES
- Help the
bride plan her wedding.
- Listen
to her plans with a smile on your face.
- Make time
for group dress shopping trips and fittings.
- Pay for
your bridesmaid’s dress, even if you hate it. You can
let your feelings be known but the bride has the final call
on what you wear.
- Help addresses
and assemble wedding and shower invitations.
- Help wrap
and tag guest favours and Bombonniere.
- Help the
Maid of Honour plan & pay for a shower or stagette.
- Attend
the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.
- Help decorate
ceremony and reception locations if necessary
- Stand in
the receiving (optional)
- Sit at
the head table
- Have a
dance with the groomsmen
- Offer to
help the Maid of Honour when needed.
- Help load
gifts into car.
- Help with
clean-up at the end of the night (for all the different events)
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